Why part 8
Why is a series a started in my blog. Why ask why? It makes me feel better. I believe others can relate. My next one is going to be called I wish… Why do we fight transitions so hard? It’s the fear of the unknown. We must leave our comfort zone. Transitions help us evolve as people. Difficuly makes us stronger. We should embrace tansition.
If you love someone
If you love someone you will find a way to be with them.
Why? Part Seven if you are counting
Why do we continue to love someone when they continuously inflict pain upon us? Why do we continue to love someone when they don’t love us in return? Why do we continue to love someone when we have invested all of our dreams, goals, secrets, laughter, with them and they have walked away? Why do we continue to love someone and build them up, teach them all we know about loving and having a relationship and they forget about it the next day? Why do we continue to love someone when they tell you they don’t love you anymore? Why do we continue to love someone when they tell you they want to stay close and then they don’t? Why do we continue to love someone when you have spent every day of your life together and they don’t want that anymore? So sue me for loving you and what we have it was nice and I really hope and pray you find what you want in life even though right now you don’t know what that is. We know who we are and obviously you do not and by the time you figure it out we won’t care but it doesn’t matter because you did not value what we had together anyway, and that really, really hurts.
Why? Part 6 I think
Why are people mean? Are they just “Les Miserables” themselves and want to take it out on everyone else? I want to understand this because I always feel guilty the second I am mean. Are they out of control in some manner and want to gain control by being mean? Do they need to be told they are mean? Do they not know? They must know. Are they mad at the world? I just want to be happy and they are ruining it for me by being mean.
Experiences should be shared
I have found that my life experiences have taught me a few things. One of the main things I have discovered is that the biggest thing in life is to make sure that you do not have regret. Regret is something that never, ever goes away because you cannot ever take back what caused it. And so I want to share that when you make your decisions you need to ask yourself, am I going to regret this? Another experience to be shared is have the time of your life with whatever you are doing because you won’t ever have another moment exactly the same as this one. So make sure to have the time of your life and enjoy and not obsess about things that don’t matter really in the big picture. Live your life, don’t have regret, and have the time of your life with everything you do and experience!
Said the coolest Mom ever.
It is very painful being the Mother of a 15 year old boy/man.